It is irrelevant to their legitimacy whether or not the person in "authority" exercises it with restraint, or any other good intention. The only thing that matters to me is if the relationship is voluntary or not. If not, then I will resist it with all my might.
Authority in the form of parent/child or dependent/caregiver is a whole other category, far as I'm concerned. The employee/employer "authority" relationship is voluntary, as are a number of other such. These are not what I'm talking about at all, and it is unfortunate to use the same words, probably. The vast array of involuntary "authority" situations is the problem, especially because most people see all or many of them as somehow "legitimate." I reject that legitimacy out of hand.
There are many pitfalls in these two paragraphs, above. Some of the sentences are fine from a philosophical
standpoint only because you add words like "to me" and "far as I'm concerned". I'll point out some
of the pitfalls in a follow up post, perhaps. First, however, your dogma of voluntary delegation being the only
legitimate form of authority was overturned by my example of a father's authority
over his children. Having been proven wrong in your assumption you shirked the example
that did so into a "whole other category". That was a false argumentative dodge. Namely, you decided
to put my example into a "whole other category" because it enabled you to recover the appearance
of never being wrong which you most certainly were.
I usually let these things go but now we're onto a pivotal area of thinking for which I'm about to formulate guidelines to assist my sons.
As they may read this, one day, I must now put on a different Terence hat for a little while.
You will be given no slack, whatsoever, in any and all areas of argumentative device or
area of life.
Now I have a question for you: Since you've said, "I don't think many of us here would question that as legitimate."
from where does a father's authority over his children come?
If you don't, or won't, answer this question, directly, neither will I answer further questions
or add more to this thread.
Terence